Saturday, October 27, 2007

On Letting Go (How to vanquish the Ghosties)

Ahhhhhh, "letting go" has many names :-)

'Tis the Ghosties we carry in our mind that usually do us in, freeze our ability to move forward, ACT or DO, thus rendering the power of the Universe prostrate.

The ONLY thing that stops the power of The Universe working for us is our own thoughts. They act as a steel wall that repel The Universe or allow her to work on our behalf.
Being able to thwart our negative thoughts is a huge undertaking. We ALL hear "little voices" telling us,


We can't

We are not worthy

We are not pretty

Who would listen to us

We are not smart enough

and the like.


When we cultivate and grow the ability to extinguish or repel those little voices we can then plug in to The Universe and all that she has to offer.

How to do that?

One exercise I use in my coaching is to teach people to

first admit and face their ghosties (or voices) simply by telling themselves that they indeed are there. No secret or magic here, this is VERY straightforward :-)

Second, we find a way to repel those voices and the very BEST way to do that is to construct several "Perfect Moments" or "Perfect Days" in your minds' eye.


What is a "Perfect Day or Moment"?

That which NOTHING can interrupt when you are thinking about it because a perfect moment or day will

1- be so intense that your mind will evoke EMOTION

2- be so intense that your mind will evoke SENSATION

3- be so intense that your mind will evoke STRENGTH

4- be so intense that your mind will be FOCUSED on your Perfect Moment/Day


Here is an example of one of MY perfect Moments. It is when I gave birth to my son. I remember The Doctor putting him on my belly whilst he was STILL attached to me! He had a perfectly round head with orange hair. I can hear the Nurse exclaiming, "Oh, a Pumpkin!" I remember thinking, "of course he has orange hair", wondering why she was so incredulous! Then my baby lifted his head, looked straight at me with eyes wide open, grinned and gurgled and then put his head down. He smelled like..........it was a smell I could never name, but......

I can SMELL him RIGHT NOW (because I am telling you about it)

I can, at this very moment, FEEL what I was feeling then.

I am, at this very moment overwhelmed with the Joy and Love I felt at that moment

I am at this very moment, INVINCIBLE; Goddess of Motherhood, Nature and protector of my child which is EXACTLY the way I was feeling at that very moment 30 years ago.


At this very moment, NOTHING, NO VOICES can get through my thoughts.

Constructing your Perfect Moments and Perfect Days is a tool that one should develop so that they can invoke it as a POWER whenever self doubt or one of the voices starts murmuring in your head. They negative thoughts/voices will soon be vanquished and they will subside.

When we take control of our own thoughts, we become invincible and become one with the Universe allowing her to bring us our favors.

Take some time today and WRITE DOWN your Perfect Moments or a Perfect Day!

PRACTICE bringing them out, wear them, FEEL them, Taste and Smell them, and know that YOU are for that moment in time, right now, INVINCIBLE!

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory
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Wednesday, October 10, 2007

This or something better


Do we know how to ASK?

Do we know how to RECEIVE?

Do we know how to GIVE?

Do we know how to trust our INSTINCTS?

Are we flexible?

Are we able to discern what we receive as something we SHOULD have instead of what we want?

“We, as human beings, (seem to) know best when it comes to fulfilling our goals and desires. The Light force of the Creator (The Universe) knows best when it comes to fulfilling our needs and what is truly best for us. Today, look at your goals and detach yourself from the outcome. Know that while this is what you want, it may not be what you need. And with that consciousness, you can achieve what you want in a way that goes far beyond any possible expectations.” The Daily Kabbalah

Knowing what we want and knowing HOW to achieve our goals and desires is not the same thing. When we take action we come closer to our goals and desires by signaling the Universe that we are open to receiving. The Universe is there to GIVE us what we ask for. It is important that we KNOW this and BELIEVE this so that we get in to THE HABIT of ASKING for the right things for us.

The quote raises an interesting lesson. Sometimes we THINK we know what we want, work and strive for that goal by TAKING ACTION (ASKING) and we get something else; something better :-) It may not be apparent at the moment that we receive the gift, however once we ACCEPT the gift and use it to Help other people Live their Dreams we begin to see that the gift IS actually the “something better”.

Robert Frost , American Poet wrote an American classic, The Road Not Taken. Belief in our own instincts and belief in the Universe brings us to a crossroads many times over on our personal journey. Robert Frost discovered the secret in the last stanza :-) The lesson? TAKE ACTION! Be open to Receive! Be flexible! TRUST YOUR INSTINCT!

The Road Not Taken (Click for audio)

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.



Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

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Thursday, October 4, 2007

You are What you THINK you are


Bear = Husky

Husky = Bear

Diamond = Success

You already ARE what you want to be. You just need to take action and believe!

If you think you are a Diamond, you will take steps to achieve your Diamondship.

You will begin to ACT like a Diamond, each and every day, step by step.

If you think you are a Diamond, those AROUND you will accept that which you ARE.



Stuart Brown describes Norbert Rosing's striking images of a wild polar bear playing with sled dogs in the wildsof Canada's Hudson Bay. The Polar Bear returned every night that week to play with the dogs.


Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS

RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory
BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

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